Want to Attract Women? The Moves are Simple and Few, Really

Many of you men spend a great deal of time thinking up new lines, better moves and what not, all in your ongoing quest to attract women to your suave, polished persona. As a woman, let me clue you in on a few facts and give you some guidelines that will not only attract women, but will have them flocking to you. Sound good? OK then, let's go.

First of all, you've got to understand that the vast majority of women see right through the insincere compliments and old, dusty lines. Believe it or not, the oldest of the old, "Haven't I met/seen you somewhere before?" line is still alive, but perhaps not well. The best you can hope for is laughter. I suppose it could be used to advantage, if you quickly follow up with a "Just kidding!," laughing along with them. This might give you an opening for a more intelligent or witty remark with which to start a conversation.

You also have to know that, should you (apparently) attract women with a slick line, she might just be playing with you!

Many men feel that, in order to attract women, they cannot possibly act like themselves. They think they must somehow embellish their personality or talents. This won't work for long. Sooner or later, she'll find out you're not really a Karate expert or a doctor, or whatever you add to your real repertoire of attractive qualities. Truly, just be yourself (with a few common sense exceptions)!

Common sense tells you that rude noises, crude language and off-color jokes don't attract women. If you're habitually unkempt, don't brush your teeth often and don't believe in bathing, you may as well fuggedaboutit! A clean, neat appearance is your best bet. This is all rather obvious, but I've seen living evidence that not every man understands these basic points.

Once you've struck up a conversation, try to draw the woman out as to her interests, instead of talking all about you. All people enjoy talking about themselves and women are no exception. Besides, it shows her that you're interested in her. Egomaniacs don't attract women in very large numbers!

However, there's a caveat on this questioning. Don't ask personal questions that will make her feel like she's being stalked. For example, don't ask if she has a boyfriend, where she lives or where she works. Movies, music, books, jogging or any general activity are safe subjects to get the ball rolling. If you happen to be neighbors or co-workers, you have an advantage in having the opportunity to observe her and learn about what she's interested in before you make your move.

Here are some of the qualities that women find extremely attractive: a genuine manner, humility (think not-a-braggart), a good sense of humor, a gentle voice and gentlemanly conduct.

Some men try to attract women based solely on looks, despite finding out that she hates everything that you like to do! Why try to cultivate a relationship in which you have nothing in common? Move on to another good looking woman with whom you may have shared interests.

So there you have it in a nutshell. Go with these guidelines and see if you don't have the women coming to you!

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